Doggy style. But these nine positions are a great place to start. How to do it: Even if you consider yourself "sexperienced," with each new partner you have, it's like you're pushing reset:
Doggy style. Putting your legs on your partner's shoulders during sex is a quick and easy way to take sex from "yawn" to "yay. Though some may shy away from this position because it looks "difficult," it's actually worth your while to give it a shot. It's perfect because it allows both partners, regardless of gender, to play an active role:
So if you're the big spoon and you're touching your partner, you're the one who's setting the pace and making it intimate. It might take a few tries to figure out the right combo of rhythm and speed, but you'll be glad you put in the effort. No matter your age, there are times when everyone needs tips for gaining confidence in bed.